Tuesday, August 3, 2010

When tolerance runs low

Whoever told you to 'be yourself' was laughing at you behind your back. Nobody wants the bundle of pervy humour, great insecurities and ugliness that you are. For so many years of my life, I was a different man for different people. Then, at the beginning of this year, I had entered Uni and all and I thought I was adult enough to go towards a unified theory of everything. If you ever think of doing the same thing, please don't. People expect you to be a different man for different people. If you can suppress all your cussing when you're in front of your parents, do the same thing when you're not with your closest friends. Keep secrets. Secrets will protect you, as long as you protect them.

22 comments:

  1. "Nobody wants the bundle of pervy humour, great insecurities and ugliness that you are."

    I'll drink for that!

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  2. Sadly very true, but you can be all your pervy insecure self with us anyday :)

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  3. Dee, Kiri, Amila, Seesaw, GG and RP - Thanks guys! :)

    Dili - I know I can. That's why I consider you guys among my closest friends! :D

    Thanks for the comments guys, and many apologies for the sporadic (and very emo) posts coming your way. I promise August will be a happier and post-ier month! :D

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  4. Sigh, if it was only so simple... at some point the wheel turns an entire circle and you find yourself at a point where what people think about you is no longer as important as it used to be, its actually quite liberating

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  5. Good one Chavie boy. Sad but true.

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  6. I wish I can say that to some people I know....

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  7. (hugs the pervy bundle of Chavie very tight)

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  8. hugs chavieee..i know what you mean..when you think of it..most of our lives we have been too busy trying to define ourselves according to the requirements of others..i mean it's not all that bad..but some where down the line you have actually forgotten who you are..i knoww...i have no idea who to trust either...Trust is such a BIG word...we still love you though..not to worry..:)

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  9. Glad you are back with your "bundle of pervy humour, great insecurities and ugliness" :)
    Now don't take a month to post the next guidance.

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  10. Well that would make you like everyone else. Everyone is insecure, _thinks_ they're ugly and well all boys are pervy :P

    So don't worry about... If someone judges you they're hypocrites.

    As for being different people, it's natural... you can't expect to one person all the time. There's some sociologist who came up with the theory of 'self', it's that we are several people and there's nothing wrong with that.

    So don't worry about it :) Chin up, chavs *hug*

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  11. Who judged you? ;) meh! screw all these people who judge you.
    We have a gig to attend :P

    Cheers!

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  12. part and parcel of life there. shrug it off, chavie. there actually are ppl who dun laff at you wen they tell you to be you :)

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  13. That's one hard lesson life teaches you pal. I had to learn it trial and error my self. Actually being yourself and being indifferent to others' reactions to it is the real deal, but it's nearly impossible for us "pruthagjana" people, to whom ego is significant to variable extents.

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  14. You're all deep inside a closet. One closet.

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  15. Wow nice. Chavie's gone wiser. but if you have multiple personalities for multiple people won't you develop the Multiple Personality Syndrome?

    But ya, I do practice it nevertheless. =D

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  16. Nice post chavie. Good luck with whatever you are doing these days. Judging by the time between posts, you seem to be busy!

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  17. we all have roles we play in life and as long as u like all the different ppl u have to be to these different people its all good. never make the mistake of being someone or something u dont like to please people.

    other than that GREAT post!

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